Ages 3-5:
When Jenny and Tim both want to play with the same toy and can’t share, their mom steps in. She explains, “When you both want the same thing, try taking turns. First Jenny can play, and then Tim. That’s a fair way to solve this problem.”
Ages 6-8:
When siblings Mark and Lisa fight over a TV show, their dad intervenes. He suggests, “Let’s solve this by compromise. Mark, you choose the show today, and Lisa, you can choose the show tomorrow.” They learn that compromising can be a solution to conflicts.
Ages 9-11:
When friends Sarah and Jane have a disagreement at school, their teacher guides them. She advises, “It’s important to communicate how you’re feeling without blaming each other. You might say, ‘I felt hurt when…’ and let the other person tell their side too.”
Ages 12-14:
During a basketball game, Tom, and Jack argue about a foul. Their coach talks to them, saying, “Instead of arguing, focus on understanding each other’s point of view. Remember, the goal is fair play, not just winning.”
Ages 15-18:
Anna and Sophie quarrel about shared chores in their apartment. Their mother, on a phone call, urges them, “Living together sometimes means disagreements, but it’s important to talk it out with respect, understanding each other’s perspectives, and finding middle ground.”